Letter 18
Date:
August 25, 1877
Sender: Harmen
Jan te Selle
Addressee: Mrs. Dela
te Selle-ten Damme Brothers
Firth, Neb August
25, 1877
received Sept. 13
17 days
Dear Respected Mother and Brothers, and other friends.
I hereby take up the
pen to write you some words and hoping you may receive these words
in the best personal state of health.
Before this letter I
wrote another one, but I never got an answer back. We write now
because we received last week a letter from brother Derk Willem.
Yes, that was very sad news! So I thought to answer that letter,
which hopefully will get into your hands.
Yes, brother D.W., it is a hard
blow for you to have to miss your dear wife.
Yes, I know from my own experience
how sad it is to have to leave to the death a wife and mother of
dear children.
But it is God's wish.
And who will doubt his doings?
Brother, have trust in
the Lord. He will help you. He will not desert anybody who trusts
Him. Herewith comforting it is a consolation to know that peace
will befall those who fear the Lord. And once in the future we
will see each other again face to face in that eternal state, in
that new Jerusalem hereafter, where no tears are going to be shed
anymore. And death cannot cause any separations anymore.
Yes, may this be yours and my consolation. Yes, may this be a
consolation for all of us and there may be peace for the people of
God.
I received that letter
at the postoffice and brought it to Gerrit Jan. I thought to
myself, mother is very old already and might not be doing too
well. And when we opened the letter we were so sad to learn that
it was actually about Jannas
death. And also for you, Mother, it must be sad. You possibly
might have thought to get good help from Janna in your old age or
your deathbed. But she precedes you to eternity. She cannot help
you any more. She passed away. But Mother find consolation in the
fact that you have another helper and that is Jesus, your saviour.
.
Derk
Willem te Selles
wife was Janna Berendina Weerkamp, born the 5th of April 1822;
died the 21st of July 1877.
.
"I
know from my own experience
H. J.s
first wife, Berendina Aleida Reusink, died following birth of a
baby girl who died later. Berendina (* 29 Jan 1841) died 10th of
March 1876. She left a son, Manus Schreurs (from her first
marriage); daughter Dela and son William
Bill"
from marriage to Harmen Jan. Baby Berendina Aleida te Selle,
born Firth 4 March 1876, passed away 8 August 1876.
.
The sons of Derk Willem te Selle and Janna
Weerkamp te Selle were:
Jan
Albert (1856 -1939), Hendrik Jan (1858 - 1925); Derk Willem
(1859 - 1886) and Bertus Jacobus (1862 - 1938).